| Bite off a little more than you can chew
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| You get stronger
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| And you do that in the gym
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| For example, when you go lift weights, you lift weights that are a little
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| heavier all the time
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| And as a consequence, you develop yourself physically and you turn into
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| Who you could be, you turn into more than you are
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| More than who — you are
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| (Who you could be)
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| More than who — you are
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| (More than you are)
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| More than who — you are
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| (Who you could be)
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| More than who — you are
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| (More than you are)
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| There’s a mythological trope that I discuss fairly frequently about rescuing
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| your father from the belly of the dragon
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| Or the belly of the beast
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| You see it in the Lion King
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| You see it when Simba is being initiated by the baboon and he ends up
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| contemplating himself in a dark pool and then his father appears in the sky
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| And then in the Pinocchio story
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| When he’s trying to become a genuine human being
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| Instead of a marionette pulled by other people’s strings or a liar or a jackass
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| 'cause those are his alternate destinies
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| He goes down to the darkest place he could find the bottom of the ocean and
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| finds the biggest monster he can look at and inside he finds his father and
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| then rescues him
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| More than who — you are
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| (Who you could be)
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| More than who — you are
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| (More than you are)
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| More than who — you are
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| (Who you could be)
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| More than who — you are
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| (More than you are)
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| And the question is; |
| Why do you find your father when you look into the abyss?
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| Imagine someone’s pursuing a goal
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| Some of the things they have to accomplish or confront
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| On the way to that goal frightened them
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| And they start to avoid and then they get more afraid and their ability to
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| pursue their goal or to accomplish their goal deteriorates because they’re
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| avoiding it
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| If you’re a psychotherapist or even a friend or a supportive loved one
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| You’re gonna encourage the person to face the challenges that are making them
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| afraid to face them voluntarily
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| What happens as a consequence of that is that
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| The person usually is able to overcome those fears and develop the necessary
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| skill and to prevail That’s partly because
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| Not so much because they get less afraid
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| But because they get more skilled and more courageous
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| If you bite off a little more than you can chew
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| You get stronger
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| As a consequence
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| And you do that in the gym for example, when you go lift weights,
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| you lift weights that are a little heavier all the time
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| And as a consequence, you develop yourself physically and you turn into
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| Who you could be
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| You turn into more than you are
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| Okay, so if you face fears a little bit at a time
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| Fears and challenges and you do that voluntarily
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| Then you become
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| More than who — you are
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| (Who you could be)
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| More than who — you are
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| (More than you are)
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| More than who — you are
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| (Who you could be)
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| More than who — you are
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| (More than you are)
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| Okay, now let’s recast that in archetypal language and make it into a kind of
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| ultimate
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| If you wanna become everything that you could be
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| Then you look into the abyss itself
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| Which is the darkest place that you can possibly contemplate
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| The terror of mortality and insanity and of suffering and of malevolence,
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| all of those, it would be like looking into hell, I suppose
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| And then by voluntarily doing that
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| You call upon the strongest part of yourself to respond
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| And the strongest part of yourself is symbolized as the sleeping father nested
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| inside the beast
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| It’s like an answer to Nietzsches conundrum, if you look long enough into an
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| abyss then the abyss looks into you
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| It’s like, well, if you look long enough into an abyss
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| Past when the abyss looks into you, you see who you could become in the form of
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| the great ancestral figures nested inside the catastrophe of life
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| Then you can join them
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| You can incorporate that and become stronger
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| And none of that’s going to happen without the demand that’s placed on you by
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| willing to confront
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| The full terror of life
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| The reality of suffering and death
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| The ever-looming presence of malevolence in your own heart and in the heart of
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| other people, so it’s evil and suffering
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| If you do it forthrightly
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| Then you discover who you could be as a consequence and
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| Who you could be
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| Is the solution to malevolence and suffering
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| More than who — you are
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| (Who you could be)
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| More than who — you are
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| (More than you are)
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| More than who — you are
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| (Who you could be)
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| More than who — you are
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| (More than you are)
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| Such a brilliant conceptualization that inside the darkest place is the heroic
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| ancestor
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| Whose identity you could incorporate
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| Perfect
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| It’s perfect
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| And I really believe it’s true and what it does is it says that
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| The human being is actually stronger than the greatest challenge that can be
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| set before him or her |