| I read this piece of work by Jung a long while back
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| It was a meditation on
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| The injunction to treat your neighbor as
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| As you would like to be treated (echo)
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| And what Jung pointed out which I really liked
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| Was that, that wasn’t an injunction to be nice to other people
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| It was an invitation to reciprocity
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| It was something like this
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| It’s like
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| You should figure out how you would like to be treated
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| Like you were taking care of yourself
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| Not how you would like people to respond to you
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| It’s more important than that
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| It’s like imagine you had a child
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| That you really cared for
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| And someone said
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| «Well, people will treat this child exactly like you want them to»
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| «But you have to figure out what that is.»
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| And so, then you’d have to sit down for like a month and you think
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| Okay well, how do you want your child to be treated?
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| You don’t want everyone to just be nice to ‘em, you know?
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| You want people to challenge ‘em
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| And
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| You want people to discipline him
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| And
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| You want people to tell ‘em when he’s wrong
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| It’s like
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| You don’t just want everyone to be nice
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| That’s pathetic
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| It’s pathetic
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| There’s no — There’s no challenge in that
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| Challenge in that (echo)
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| There’s no — There’s no challenge in that
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| Challenge in that (echo)
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| Human beings are self-conscious
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| And
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| We know about our limitations
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| And we know about our weaknesses
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| And so, we can have contempt for human beings in general
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| Because
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| You know
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| We’re just
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| Flawed and breakable and all of that
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| But we know ourselves better than we know everyone else
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| And so
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| You have a very acute sense of
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| How you’re not up to scratch
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| And so that leads
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| Naturally to a sort of self-contentious attitude
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| People are more likely to give prescription medication to their pets than
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| To take them themselves
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| Take them themselves (echo)
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| Imagine someone that you treat well
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| That you love
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| And try to treat yourself that way
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| You go to detach from yourself for a bit
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| You got to think; |
| okay well
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| I’m a person among other people
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| And I deserve at least as much respect
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| As
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| A person among other people
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| I should be trying to help myself across time
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| And instead of being self-contemptuous and self-destructive
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| I need to
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| Take care of myself
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| As if I’m potentially valuable
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| And to lay out my life that way
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| It’s hard for people
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| They don’t take care of themselves as well as they should
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| As well as the should (echo)
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| Take care of your room
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| Take care of your things
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| Like
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| Have some respect for yourself as a
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| Miraculous being because that is actually what you are
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| There is a lot of potential within you
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| You’re necessary
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| More than you think to the unfolding of things
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| That’s the thing about being an individual
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| It’s the thing that
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| Western civilization has always recognized
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| That as an individual
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| You have a light
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| That you have to bring into the world
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| And that if you don’t bring it into the world
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| The world is a dimmer place
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| And that’s a bad thing because when the world is a dim place it can get
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| very-very-very dark |