| They did not tell us that all of that
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| «being my own person and my being independent»
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| would lead to separation, loneliness, celibacy, and lesbianism
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| They didn’t tell us that if you give up the man
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| you’re gonna take one of these things
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| it gets worse and would destroy your nation
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| They made us think it was some kind of glorified position
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| to brag about the fact that I got my own job
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| my own credit card, my own car
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| so I don’t need no man
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| I don’t even know how we got that mixed up
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| ain’t none of that got anything to do with having being with no man
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| We have some serious relationship problems, you know
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| over 60% of our women are single, widowed, separated, or divorced.
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| They don’t have a man. |
| They need fathers they need protection.
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| To raise a child
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| you need a parental coalition of a man and a woman.
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| We have sons by not having have a father in the home
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| they don’t know how to respect women.
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| They may bring the welfare system in
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| and tell us in order to feed and clothe and house our children
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| we have to give up our man-we have to put the man out of the house.
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| When the white farmwife goes to the government for subsidy for the farm
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| they don’t tell them to get rid of the farm
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| and they keep that family together.
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| But in the black community they make it a requirement
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| because they want to keep endorsing into the black community
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| that the black man is no good |