| Never noticed her
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| Why I noticed her so much
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| I made myself ridiculous
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| Never noticed her
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| But I made the blunder of trying to attract her attention instead of giving it When I said hello
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| I had talked right past her
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| When she looked at me
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| I had glanced shyly to one side
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| I had been so self-conscience,
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| I acted self-conscience
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| Notice others and let them notice by directness
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| Whoo! |
| Play it Bill! |
| Whoo!
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| Don’t be scared; |
| don’t be shy.
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| You’ll never know until you try, buddy
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| Fred is one of the richest people I have ever met
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| True, he does not have a hoard of money to give away
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| He cannot pay handsome salaries
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| He does not entertain lavishly
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| Or bestow costly gifts
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| But he overflows with the gold of sincere friendliness
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| And gets in return a self-satisfaction
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| An influence, and a power with people
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| That all the money in the mint could not buy
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| He does not wait to see if people will like him
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| Fred assumes they do like him
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| That is one of his secrets
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| He does not wait for them to say hello or smile first
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| He takes a friendly lead himself and everyone follows
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| That is another one of the secrets
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| He does not question whether or not
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| He will like a person
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| Or wait before deciding to be friendly
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| He takes it for granted
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| He will like everyone, every person
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| This is the third secret of friendliness
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| He magnifies other’s good points
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| No matter how inconsequential
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| He overlooks a few annoying qualities
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| Or major bad points
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| This is the fourth element in friendliness
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| Friendliness is very contagious
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| The trouble is that many of us wait
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| To catch it from someone else instead of Giving the other fella a chance |